You may think you're refusing to settle, when in reality you're settling for less than what you really want.
I recently reconnected with a friend of mine from my single, dating days. Back then she and I were searching for Mr. Right together, and we spent a lot of time discussing the men we were dating and analyzing our various relationships.
This woman is beautiful, talented, funny, very hip and is a lot of fun to be around. She's now in her mid-forties.
She's also single.
Too picky?
It really got me thinking about the idea of being picky, and not settling for less than you want.
We both had our lists. Not necessarily written lists (although I had various versions of written lists over the years), but we always carried with us in our minds subconscious lists of our must haves that were the driving force behind deciding whether or not to get involved with a particular guy. Continue Reading
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