I was on a call last week with a beautiful woman I'm coaching all the way from Africa. Our community has reached all around the world!
She was struggling with her deep - and completely justified - feelings of resentment after finding herself in yet another relationship where she's put in all the effort to keep a relationship going only to have it end in disappointment.
"When am I ever going to get this right, Jane?!" she asked me.
I empathize with her after voicing these same words more times than I ever thought possible.
"Could I really be right back here again?" For every one of you who've ever uttered these words, we all commiserate with you!
Who among us hasn't responded from our default hard-wired programming that tells us when someone pulls away, you try harder, you do more, you give more of yourself? Who of us haven't found ourselves doing what we would be so much better to do when it feels so counter-intuitive to our rising panic - to stop and let him come to you?Continue Reading
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