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He's Going to Fall For You

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He's going to fall for you, and when he does, he'll be falling for the real you; your essence. A beautiful woman is being herself looking up and smiling.Ladies, it's time to stop worrying about what you said or didn't say, what you did or didn't do, or any of those other regrets you have when you feel like things aren't going well. It doesn't matter.

None of those things really matter.

They are of no significance in the realm where the kind of attraction we're seeking takes place, where the true seeds of love are sown.

It's time to stand up for that inner person of you, instead of breaking her down. It's time to stop beating yourself up and being so hard on yourself. It's time to stop regretting all those things you do that you seem to have such a hard time not doing.

Dwelling on all of these only brings you down and makes you feel worse about yourself and your current state of affairs. It doesn't serve you one bit to stay in that place where there is no self-love, no remembering all that you are and all that you have to offer someone, no honoring of your you.

Because the point here is that when you cross paths with that special one who is looking for you as much as you are looking for him, it won't be those little things that you think are going to make or break the relationship. He won't be looking so closely at those things you love to hate about yourself; he'll be looking at who you are, what makes you uniquely you, the essence of you!

That's what attracts him, calls him over, causes him to take a second look in your direction. And that's what gets him to stay.

It's your aura, your energy, your essence.

And the more you are in touch with who you really are and all those aspects of your personality, your temperament, your heart, your soul, everything that is unique to you, the more someone looking for someone just like you will be able to see all of you come shining through. You see, the key to attracting someone who is worthy of our love, and all that we have to offer is to first see ourselves in the beautiful light of our very essence.

Exactly what attracts him to us is what we must first discover in ourselves. It's only when we see ourselves in this same light, with love and acceptance instead of hate and rejection, that he will be able to see us in this same way, too.

We all have those things about ourselves we want to change.

But there's a difference between loathing the person we see in the mirror and working towards becoming our best selves. One view knocks us down. The other view sees us rising to become the person we truly are underneath all the layers of our defenses and our pretenses.

It's time to stop all this focusing on everything outside of ourselves and come back in to that beautiful place deep inside that's been vacant for far too long. That place where the inner light of you gives up settling for the dim light of mediocrity and refuses to settle for anything less than the glorious illuminating light that is your birthright!

Find that essence within yourself and the one who's meant to find you will find it too. And when he falls for you, he'll be falling for the real you.

Your essence.

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  1. Anne-Marie says

    August 8, 2015 at 6:04 am

    Tears are running down my cheeks as I read this. I am an attractive sixty years old woman and it's time for me to truly realize who I am, what I am worth and that I never have to settle for less than what I want in a relationship ever again.

    It's my time to receive back love just as I freely give it. I am discovering truths about myself and it's so liberating to finally understand that there is nothing wrong with me. Yes, I made poor choices in the past; the operative word here is past; and I can't do anything about the past. I choose to learn from those past relationships and move on to a brighter better future.

    The Lord has lead me on a journey to self-discovery, that is why I am looking deep within myself. I want His best for me and I am willing to do whatever it takes to receive the kind of love I deserve. I am very optimistic and the love of my life is on his way and I want to be healthy and happy when he arrives.

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    • Jane says

      August 8, 2015 at 8:04 am

      More than time, Anne-Marie. The past is in the past. Don't dredge it out when you're only using it to beat yourself up for what you didn't know and couldn't have seen at the time. Like all of us, you've done the best you could with what you knew then. Let that be enough! This is about you now, not any him. Find you, go get her back, go rediscover the you that you never even knew. It's never ever too late to find her! When you find you, when you get to know you, when you discover the beautiful, radiant, confident you, you allow him to finally see YOU!

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  2. Shelley says

    July 5, 2015 at 12:33 am

    I know I have that aura and essence. I remember when I was in my last relationship, other men would look at me and I didn't understand it then. My now I do it was my confidence, aura and essence thats why they were looking. He wasn't the right one for me, it was a sign for me. Its important not to get stuck in the past and free ourselves from the unhealthy relationships.

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    • Jane says

      July 5, 2015 at 11:33 am

      Exactly, Shelley! Oh how you do!

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