I know. I have too. Many, many times.

I know why you're here. Because I've been there, too - all too many times.

It's not by accident you've found yourself right where you are. With this man who has so much potential, if only he could see what you see. Oh, you've picked each other out so well.

You saw in him that potential, that capacity to love, to give, to feel, to be. And if he was honest with himself – if he even could be – he couldn't help but agree.

There's a story here that you're not even aware of going on behind the scenes. This man isn't just any man.

And you, well, we already knew this part, you're not just any woman.

You know how you love so deeply? You know how you care so much? You know how you feel so deeply? That's what I'm talking about.

You love harder than most. You feel deeper than most.

It doesn't matter that everyone else seems to question what you're feeling or tries to convince you the way it really is; you know. It's this knowing inside you that keeps you trying so hard to get him to come around, to show him why you're everything he could ever possibly want to be.

It's why you're here, after all. It's why you stay.

There's a reason why I can tell you about him. About this emotionally unavailable man you've found yourself with that you don't understand, but all you want to do is try.

Why is he like this? You wonder.

Doesn't he care? You ask.

How can he not see this? How can he not want this – this thing that you have together – the potential that you've only touched the surface of? How can't he?

With what you feel, with what you're sure he feels, too – you know he does even if he denies it. But what then? What can you do with all this?

You see, I know this because this is exactly the same place where I used to live. 

Every one of the ones I wanted, of the ones I held onto – literally for dear life –were the ones who were emotionally unavailable to me. No matter who they were on the outside or how different they might be inside, underneath that outward façade of strength and masculinity, they all held a similar story.

How can they all be so similar? How can they all hold such a similar tale? 

And more importantly, what can you do about it?

It's Not You

There's a reason he pullls away. A reason he starts running. And a reason you find him over and over again like you do.

It’s not you. It’s not personal.

But you can change it.

It takes a shift in our thinking, in our being, in our feeling. It takes a new level of awareness that flies in the face of our strong belief systems and programming.
Don’t be surprised if you find yourself fighting it or questioning it.

Most (if not all) of us need some help to break free of this trap we've bought into for so long to that keeps us from being loved and being with someone who’s truly capable of giving us what we so deserve.

It doesn't have to be this way unless you want it to. You don’t have to keep living in this subconscious cycle that you don’t quite understand.

But the choice you make to change this is always left up to you.

It's Time to Change This

Have you ever asked yourself questions like:

"How can these guys do this to a caring, loving, kind beautiful woman like you?"

"How can they be intimate with you one day, then cold and distant the next?"

"Why do men hurt you like that?"

"How can they just disappear like nothing ever happened? Did it really mean nothing to him?"

If the answer is yes, then my new audio program "Why Men Pull Away - Breaking the Cycle of Dating Emotionally Unavailable Men Who Won't Commit" is for you.

It doesn't matter what age you are or where you are in your life stage - if you've been struggling with dating Emotionally Unavailable men, then this program is for you. 

Whether you're currently in a relationship, newly single, divorced, or just dating around and tired of finding the same guys that suddenly stop calling or texting you even when you think things are going great, this program will help you to finally understand why. 

It's all in there.

You can change this, right now. And cost shouldn't be an issue, because you can get the entire program right now for only $47. 

Yes, only $47

It's the most affordable program of it's kind.

You can either choose to keep living the way you've been living, walking on eggshells, wondering when he's going to disappear again, or you easily get the tools you need to understand why he's doing this, and what you can do to change it.

After all, haven't you lived like this long enough?

"I can say, with Jane's personal coaching and her programs, I feel so much stronger and am making choices that work for me.  

My self esteem has risen dramatically, since I've chosen ME.  

You deserve to have the safe and committed relationship you want and when you can clearly see this, the letting go won't be as difficult.  Keep reading Jane's words of encouragement and wisdom.  You are heading in the right direction.  Stay strong."

- Steph