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Have you ever asked yourself (or anyone who would listen)
"How could he do that to me?"

Are you ready to be loved and adored for
who you really are?

Beautiful, Confident, Radiant YOU!

A New Approach to Loving YOURSELF, Loving Your LIFE, and Getting the LOVE You've Always Wanted

Learn my simple step-by-step formula for literally
creating the kind of loving relationship
that you’ve always wanted!

Yes! Get Me Started!

It's difficult.
I know.

Men today seem to want only one thing, and we all know what that is.

Wouldn't it be wonderful if you could simply end all of the drama, the anxiety, and the struggle from dating?

Finally meet the right kind of guy?

You know, the kind of guy who will actually call you, who actually wants to see you, and who loves you (the REAL you) with all his heart.

The kind of guy who's ready for a commitment - the kind of commitment that you want.

The kind of guy who knows how lucky he is to have you.

I have some great news for you. Not only is it possible, but I'm going to show you exactly how to do it.

He's out there, and together we're going to bring him right to you.

I know. I have too. Many, many times.

After one too many relationships with a guy who just would not commit, who could never seem to be able to bring himself to tell you that he's deeply in love with you.

Or after one too many guys that you think could be the one, only to have them suddenly disappear off the face of the earth.

It's enough to leave the self-esteem of even the most confident of us in tatters.

It's horrible, that empty, sick feeling of "another one that didn't work out" when all you're left with is that awful feeling in the pit of your stomach.

Wondering if it's too late.

Wondering if there's something wrong with you.

Wondering what all of those other apparently happily married women have that you don't.

Wondering if you'll ever get it right and finally meet a great guy that loves you the way you love him.

How can these guys do this to a caring, loving, kind beautiful woman like you?

How can they be intimate with you one day, then cold and distant the next?

Why do men hurt you like that?

How can they just disappear like nothing ever happened? Did it really mean nothing to him?

It's NOT Your Fault

We fall for these guys who aren't really right for us. They don't really want the same things we want.

It happens to nearly all of us, and it's because of our deep programming.

Programming that has come from our families, our friends, our culture, and the ever present media that surrounds us constantly, telling us how we should think and what we should want.

And it causes us to not even know who we are anymore.

We're not taught how to do this
Of course you've been having trouble finding the right guy. Of course you've had relationship after relationship with the wrong men.
You were never taught any of this!
Think about it – you go to school to learn all kinds of things - math, reading, language, arts, science…almost everything.
But no one ever teaches you about relationships. You've had to learn it the hard way – by living it.
And that's a very difficult way to learn. Which is why so many of us never really get it. And that's exactly why we keep finding ourselves in the same situation over and over again. 

But there's good news here: You can change this.
The fact is, now more than ever, there are plenty of great guys out there that are looking for a real relationship with a woman just like you.
Plenty of guys that are attractive, sexy, emotionally stable and want a committed relationship.
You just need to know how to spot them, and more importantly how to get them to spot you.
Wouldn't it be wonderful if you could just avoid those go-nowhere relationships forever, and never again have to deal with those kinds of dead-end dates and disappearing acts? 

Never again have to deal with those feelings of rejection and hopelessness, wondering why he hasn't called you back?
Wouldn't it be amazing if you could just magically make the man of your dreams appear right in front of you? And he was madly in love with you?
He called you when he said he would, he treated you like a queen, he let you know how much in love with you he is?
Well, I'm here to tell you that there's nothing magical about it – in fact, it's so simple you are going to be amazed. And yes, you can do it because anyone can do it.
I know, because I did it.
I've been right where you are, and I can help.
Just like you, I wondered what was wrong with me, why I couldn't seem to get it right, why nothing that the experts told me to do was working, why I seemed to be the only one not figuring it out.
Why I was still single. Still.
And just like you, I had tried everything. Looked everywhere, went to all the “right” places. Joined all the “right” things. And just like you, I was attractive, intelligent, sexy, fun-loving, and desirable.
Just like you.
That’s why I created this program, "Beautiful, Confident, Radiant YOU!"

For those of you who don't already know me, I'm Jane Garapick, founder of Getting to TRUE Love.

If you're ready to turn your love life around and finally get the kind of guy that you've always dreamed of then you're in the right place!

I've dedicated my life to helping women just like you to break the never-ending cycle of bad relationships and get the kind of love they really want in their lives.

Not long ago I was in the same place you are right now - wondering if I was EVER going to get it right and have the kind of love I wanted - the kind that I knew I deserved!

After picking up the pieces of my own shattered love life, after the final straw of the worst heartbreak of my life, something clicked. I decided right then and there that this was not how my story was going to end.

That's when I discovered the real secrets to having the kind of love that you want, and now I want to share these secrets with you.

I've been happily married to the man of my dreams for over a decade, and I want you to have the same kind of happiness that I have now

And I'm going to help you get there as quickly as possible.

It's time to try something different

Did you answer YES! to any of these questions?

Then you've come to the right place!

Aren't you tired of dating the same kind of guys over and over again?

  • Guys that you hit it off with, but then never call
  • Guys that drag a relationship on forever but won't ever make a commitment
  • Guys that fade away and become distant
  • Guys that simply disappear without any explanation
  • Guys that suddenly stop calling or texting you even when you think things are going great

It's much easier than you think.

It's time to stop worrying about what you said or didn't say, what you did or didn't do, or any of those other regrets you have when you feel like things aren't going well or didn’t go well.
The truth is that it just doesn't matter. None of those things really matter.
They are of no significance in the realm where the kind of attraction we're seeking takes place, where the true seeds of real love are sown.

It's time to stand up for that inner person of you, instead of breaking her down.

It's time to stop beating yourself up and being so hard on yourself.
It's time to stop regretting all those things you do that you seem to have such a hard time not doing.
Dwelling on all of these only brings you down and makes you feel worse about yourself and your current state of affairs.
It doesn't serve you one bit to stay in that place where there is no self-love, no remembering all that you are and all that you have to offer someone, no honoring of your YOU.
Because the point here is that when you cross paths with that special one who is looking for you as much as you’re looking for him, it won't be those little things that you think are going to make or break the relationship.
He won't be looking so closely at those things you love to hate about yourself; he'll be looking at who YOU are, what makes you uniquely you, the essence of you!
That's what attracts him, calls him over, causes him to take a second look in your direction. And that's what gets him to stay.

It's your aura, your energy, your ESSENCE.
And the more you’re in touch with who you really are and all those aspects of your personality, your temperament, your heart, your soul, everything that is unique to you, the more someone looking for someone just like you will be able to see all of you come shining through.
You see, the key to attracting someone who is worthy of our love, and all that we have to offer is to first see ourselves in the beautiful light of our very essence.
Exactly what attracts him to us is what we must first discover in ourselves. It's only when we see ourselves in this same light, with love and acceptance instead of hate and rejection, that he will be able to see us in this same way, too.
We all have those things about ourselves we want to change.
But there's a difference between loathing the person we see in the mirror and working towards becoming our best selves.
One view knocks us down. The other view sees us rising to become the person we truly are underneath all the layers of our defenses and our pretenses.
It's time to stop all this focusing on everything outside of ourselves and come back in to that beautiful place deep inside that's been vacant for far too long.
That place where the inner light of you gives up settling for the dim light of mediocrity and refuses to settle for anything less than the glorious illuminating light that is your birthright!

Find that essence within yourself and the one who's meant to find you will find it too.

And when he falls for you, he'll be falling for the real you. Your ESSENCE.
And here’s the thing.
The more single women I work with the more I’m convinced that beauty, intelligence, success, wealth, and attractiveness doesn’t mean an increased ability to attract their  Mr. Right.  In fact, often it makes it more difficult.
For every woman who may seem to have it all (or at least have something that we think we're missing that we need to attract a man) the story they tell in reality is one that is all too similar to the rest of us.
We think that the more beautiful a woman is, the more likely she’ll attract a better relationship or a higher quality guy, but in fact, of the ones I can think of, the opposite is true.
Think of all the models and celebrities who seem to end up with the glamorous celebrity guys only to be broken up a few years later.
The reality is that no matter how educated we are, how attractive we are, how much money we have, how much we have to offer someone on whatever level, none of these things seem to correlate with how good we are at finally getting it right and having a real relationship with a real guy that will stand the test of time.
Because it’s just not about that. 
Those outer things, those surface things, may seem to attract someone to us, and yes, we’ve all seen the beautiful woman with a crowd of men around her at a party, but those types of surface things don’t form the basis for a real, lasting relationship.
Be true to yourself.

Underneath the surface is what’s real, as in who we really are.  

That’s what really matters over time. 
And while the surface package may be very attractive, it’s what’s inside that comes through over time and is what matters in the long term. 
The real light inside each one of us is what attracts a loving, available, healthy man, a man that is right for us, and bonds us together in the long term.
And that’s the only type of man who’s worthy of being in your life; someone who sees beyond that surface package to the heart and soul of who you are, the essence of you that is worth more than even the most attractive surface package. 

I've been right where you are now.

It's one thing to hear this, to agree with it, to believe it, but it's another to live it. To FEEL it in your own life right where you are, when it's anything but how you feel right now.
Everywhere you've been in your relationships, I've been there, too. On that begging end. On the heartbreak side of love.
And like you, not just once. No, I didn't learn my lesson the first time either.

I've been in the worst of relationships. Over and over again.
One of the last ones, in particular, really left me shattered and wondering if I was ever going to be able to just let go and move on with my life.
I actually remember it like it was yesterday. It seems like the most painful experiences are also the hardest to forget.
I remember that day I walked off the airplane, arriving back somewhere that I used to call home, feeling like I had just died and lost everything that I had been living for.
It was finally over.
It was more than twenty years ago now and the memory of it all still comes back to me as I recall the events that led up to that airplane ride home.

Like so many of us do, I had stayed in it far, far too long.
After three wonderful, whirlwind months feeling like I had met the man of my dreams, everything suddenly changed. I noticed a distinct change in him.

He was pulling away.
I was no longer a priority, I was no longer anything more than a convenience, and it was the beginning of a journey of accepting what little crumbs I could get in order to be with him in the name of what I thought was love.
Because I really believed it was just a matter of time before he would be ready, before he would miss what had been and he would want it to be like that again.
So for two more years, I stayed with him, holding onto hope, showing him all that I was, all that life with me would be like, desperately trying to prove my worth, prove my worthiness, believing that I could make him love me.

Until one day, it all came crashing down around me.
That final event that ensured my heart and soul could no longer deny that this was happening, and the words that slipped out, my strongest words ever to him, sealing the relationship's end.
Even though for a long time I knew it was time to let go, every part of me knew it but I just couldn't bear the thought of being alone.
Of giving up. Of accepting that it was really over.
But now it was actually happening. With a kiss goodbye at the airport and a promise that if things change, I'd be the first to know, it all came shattering down around me.
And there, as the snow was falling outside, as the reality of what had happened started to sink in, and a sadness like I had never felt before washed over me, those words took on a whole new meaning.

I couldn't make him love me.
No matter how much I had tried, how perfect I had tried to be, how much I had tried to show him I was everything he was looking for, it hadn't worked. My love hadn't been enough. I couldn't make him love me.
So I did what we all do. I wallowed for far too long in my own self-pity.
I spent way too much time looking at the phone trying to decide if I should call him or not (all the while secretly hoping the phone would suddenly ring and it would be him on the other end).
Finally, after months of this, I decided I'd had enough of this kind of living. Of accepting the crumbs of non-relationships. Of beating myself up for what I should have done and didn’t do, or what I did do that I shouldn’t have done.

We drive ourselves crazy with this kind of stuff!
It finally hit me just how crazy it all was. I decided, right then and there, that I was going to turn things around, but I had no idea of where to start.

I needed help.
So, not knowing where else to turn, I read every relationship book I could get my hands on. I spent hours upon hours in the self-help aisle of my bookstore, constantly checking to see if there was anything new or anything I had missed.
I tried everything.
I asked for advice from every happily married person I could get to talk to me.
I took program after program, watched video after video.
I talked to my therapist. I talked to my doctor.
I tried everything they told me to try.

A lot of it didn't work. But some of it really did.
And I don’t know if it was from doing all of that, but eventually something clicked, and I realized exactly what I needed to do. It was just like someone turning on a light bulb in a dark room, and I could finally see.

It's funny, but looking back on it now it's all so clear.

I now see that I had to go through it all in order to get to where I am now. I had to go through each of the steps, including the painful ones.
Looking back now with a clear vision I can see exactly what I did, and how each step led to the next, which led to the next, which ultimately delivered, right to my doorstep, the love of my life, my dream partner, and the happy life that goes along with it.
I can now see that it just wouldn't have worked any other way.
And I now realize how simple it really is. I wish I had known this earlier, but I was too caught up in the middle of it to see it.
So many of the relationship experts will tell  you that you need to change things about yourself in order to CATCH a guy, to get his attention, to get him to notice you, or to HOOK him in.
They'll tell you that you need to dress a certain way, that you need to act a certain way, that you need to say certain things and do certain things.
They want you to believe in some set of rules that if you just stick to, you’ll get the guy of your dreams.
They're essentially telling you to change yourself to be something different than you are now.
Well, I'm here to tell you some good news.

Not only do you NOT have to change or be different than the person you are now, but if you do it’ll actually HURT your chances of finding your perfect match.

I mean, it only makes sense, right?
If you pretend to be something you’re not just to get the attention of a guy that likes that, then chances are he wasn't really a true match for the real you (the you that's perfect, by the way).
No, the fact is the beautiful, authentic, real you is much more interesting, lovable and gorgeous than any other you that you could ever pretend to be.
Becoming something you're not just to CATCH a certain type of guy will only hurt in the long run when you just wind up with a superficial relationship with a guy that's not really the right fit for you.
It can only lead to disaster and heartache.

That’s why I'm so excited to let you know about the program I've created for you that captures exactly the process of finding that love you're so longing for.
It’s exactly what I've been conveying to you in my responses to your comments and answers to your questions on my website, and through my voice to you at gettingtotruelove.com

Beautiful, Confidant, Radiant YOU!

I know you've tried everything.

That's why you can't try one more thing because if you do and you STILL don't meet him, then you'll have to admit all over again to everyone – and mostly to yourself – that it really is you.

That there really is something wrong with you.
Well, Beautiful, I have some good news for you.
It's not about fixing you.

It's not about one more program pointing out what's wrong with you.
It's about seeing you!
You see, I know that you've never seen yourself before. That's what this all comes down to.

That's why there's nothing to fix, but there's everything to find.
That's the only thing that's been missing. You don't know how to see the real you. You don't know how to see you for who you really are, for all that you have to offer, for all that you have to give.

All you know is what's wrong with you.

All you've been told is what you're doing wrong.

All you've heard is how everyone else seems to know what they're doing and have it all together, while you stay there in the shadows trying to figure out what's so desparately wrong with you on your own.
There's such a shame in our culture behind this ever present question that you hear no matter how much you try not to hear it. 

"Why are you still single?"

Or worse yet, the words whispered behind your back "Why is she still single?"

The truth is that there's so much more to those words.

What you really hear them saying, even as you pretend you don't, are the words "What's wrong with her that she's still single?"

There's such a shaming aspect of singleness in our culture that so many of us can't get past.
We've come so far in so many ways, but on the otherhand, have we really?

Or for those of us who feel so deeply, who sense what others think and say even as they would deny it, have we really come anywhere at all? It's still there all around us, and the ones who break the mold and don't follow in everyone else's shoes still seem to be choosing this, too.
But you didn't choose this.
And that's what makes this so different for you.
That confident woman you see living and loving the epitomy of singleness.

That's not you.

Maybe it used to be, but somewhere between the beginnings that showed so much promise and the endings that broke your already tattered heart, you stopped seeing yourself the way you used to.
The hope is all but gone. The excitement of a new date has been replaced with the expectation that there'll be something wrong again this time.

You've come to dread being "set up" by your friends or family, or checking for anything new in online dating.

What could possibly be different? You wonder.

It's become a self-fulfilling prophecy that even if you recognized it, you feel powerless to change.
And yet you're here.
Somehow, some way, there's still some glimmer of hope inside you that brought you here today.

You don't know have to know how or why; in fact, it doesn’t really matter, except that you're here. You see, some of the greatest miracles happen when we're at our lowest darkest place.
And then you look at me and wonder how I could possibly understand what you're going through.

Except that I do.

You see, I know something about the way we see ourselves. And what happens to us when we can't.
He can't see you until you see yourself. You're his eyes. When you see yourself for who you are, with eyes of love instead of eyes of loathing, only then will he be able to see you.

It's not cliché. It's reality.
There's a saying that goes something like: "If you could see yourself the way someone who loves you sees you, you would never, ever allow yourself to be treated this way".

That, Beautiful, is the truth.

It's not about him, it's about you. It's about seeing yourself with love instead of hate. With compassion instead of judgement. With grace instead of its opposite.
That's what I'm here for. I'm going to help you find the real you.

How could you know when you've only had what they wanted you to be reinforced in you?

How could you know who you really are apart from the good little girl you've only ever known how to be?

You played the role so beautifully, in fact, you still do, don't you? 

Except that's not the real you, it's only a role that's become so much a part of you, you can't tell the difference between the two.
That's where we're going. Deep into you.

We're going to find you and set you free.

Step by step, we're going to get you there.

This isn't a fix you program. It's a find you program. And once you do, you're going to see yourself like you never have before.

So he can see you, too. Like you've never been seen before.

I'm going to walk you through each and every step in the order that gives you the fastest results for each and every one of those beautiful steps that are finally going to get you where you want to be.
Loved. For you. For who you are. For where you've been. For all you're going to be. 
From the beginnings where we find out about the real you that you never knew; the one that you only know because it's the you everyone else told you was you.
To the in between steps where we discover what hidden beliefs you've been buying into for most, if not all of your life. To the step where we give you something to believe in again.
The freedom to believe in yourself, in love, in someone else who might just be looking for you as hard as you've been looking for him.
And then we're going to help him find you.

By giving you back your ability to be the one in control in this thing that's gotten so out of control. By showing you that you're the one who's been doing the choosing all along, no matter how much it's felt anything but something you would choose.
By giving you back your power to choose exactly what you're looking for by going deeper than you've ever gone to discover exactly what that is.
And we don't stop there.

We take you out and show you how to shine your own light in a way that he can't help but see you.

Without a chance of missing you with that feeling of your newfound freedom from where you've been, from what you've been carrying around you that was never yours to begin with, to your new life that knows no limits.

Imagine what it would be like to be loved the same way you love him.

Never again have to deal with those feelings of rejection and hopelessness, wondering why he hasn't called you back?

Wouldn't it be amazing if you could just magically make the man of your dreams appear right in front of you? And he was madly in love with you?

He called you when he said he would, he treated you like a queen, he let you know how much in love with you he is?

Well, I'm here to tell you that there's nothing magical about it – in fact, it's so simple you are going to be amazed. And yes, you can do it because anyone can do it.

Let me help you.

It's been said that when the student is ready, the teacher will appear.

You're ready. Let me teach you.
Yes, I’ve been coaching women just like you for over 10 years now.
Yes, I studied psychology at Simon Frasier University.
Yes, I’ve been running a very successful dating and relationship blog for over 4 years.

Yes, my writing has been featured on The Huffington Post, Yahoo Shine, EHarmony, YourTango, Care2, PopSugar and so many others.
But that's not why you should let me help you.
You should let me help you because I've been there, exactly where you are right now. And I still have the scars on my tender, wounded heart to show for it, just like you do.
I've lived it, and I know the way out.

It was only after I went through each of the steps I'm going to show you.
Once I did, I found myself one beautiful early spring evening on the beach next to a cozy fire as the man of my dreams knelt down on one knee and pulled a small black box from his pocket.
Tears streamed down my face as he looked into my eyes and spoke those four words that I had wanted to hear for so long...Will you marry me?
(LOL - my husband, Nick, just reminded me that I said yes before he even finished the question!)
Because I knew, without a doubt, that he was the perfect guy for me.

I've been happily married to that man of my dreams for over a decade now.
I'm now enjoying a life filled with all of the love the universe has to offer with my soul mate of a husband, two spirited, joyful children, and two cuddly, fluffy little dogs.
In the process of living happily ever after.
Now I want to spread that joy to the world around me. I want to share the happiness that I've found.

I want to show you how you can get there too.
I want to share with you these hidden secrets that I learned the oh so hard way, and give you the tools to attract the perfect man into your life, so that you can have the same kind of happy, passionate, joyful relationship that I've found.
I’m here to tell you that it does happen, it can happen for you, and it’s completely under your control.
It's your turn. 

It's time to stop putting yourself through this. It's time to stop settling like this for so much less than you deserve.
You're about to learn how to meet the guy that's right for you and avoid all those other guys that aren't.
It's all about following the simple step by step program that I've created that will work for anyone. This system is so powerful and effective you'll be upset that you didn't know how to do this sooner.
My passion is helping women just like you to find the kind of love that I've found in my life

Studying and understanding relationships, what makes them work and what doesn't, has been a passion of mine for several decades now, or most of my adult life. My friends and family think that is borders on obsessive, but they're wrong – I crossed the border into obsession a long time ago.
Why? mainly because I used to be right where you are now. Wondering how to make it happen for myself.
Being absolutely confused by what men did and how they reacted on dates and in relationships, and having no idea of what I was doing wrong, or, on the rare occasion, right.

I thought it was just me.
But after talking with friends, family members, coworkers, and, more recently, my blog readers, I realize that this confusion is extremely widespread.
Which is not only unfortunate, it's completely unnecessary.
If you're feeling this same way about men, it has nothing to do with you.
Given all of the crazy tangle of bad advice and misinformation out there today, it's no wonder you're thoroughly confused – in fact, you should consider yourself lucky if you can interact with men at all!
The truth is that there has never, in the history of the world, been a better time to find the love of your life than today.
And you don't need to have movie star looks or be amazingly talented, charismatic or outgoing.

No, it's much simpler than that.

It's a simple matter of wading through all of the clutter.
If all of this bad information has your head spinning, wondering if you should do this like she says or do that like he says, you can just stop, take a deep breath and relax.
We're going to tackle all of that head on, break it down and make it all as simple as possible.
Because it really is that simple.

"You have come to the right place for love and support. So many of these stories that Jane shares have a familiar theme. Women with big hearts who give out so much but get little in return.  I am one of those women.  I have also attracted men who won't or can't commit because they are emotionally not available, men who take advantage of my generosity. 
I recently completed Jane's program and I am so grateful that I loved myself enough to sign up and listen to someone who has walked in my shoes. She has found true love for herself and so can I. So can you and all the other ladies who wish the same for themselves.
I realize that the process for finding a healthy love relationship all starts with me. What am I willing to do for myself first? What am I willing to let go of? What am I willing to accept?   
There are no endings, only new beginnings and I encourage you to acknowledge the pain you are experiencing, because for you it is real, then do what you can to love and nurture yourself. You will get stronger as each day passes, and you will draw into your life the kind of love you want and deserve."


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And so much more! By the time you've finished this program, you'll have all the tools you need to target the guy that's perfect for you, and make him recognize it as much as you do.

Here's What You'll Get:

Over 7 hours of instructional video where I take you by the hand and walk you through each of the simple steps that I took to find the love of my life.

Broken down into easy-to-watch modules that you can view on your own schedule and at your own pace.

Delivered digitally right to your laptop, ipad, tablet or smartphone, or other internet capable device! No waiting - you could literally start in the next few minutes!

You can start and stop any of the videos at any time, and you can come back to it as often as you need to - for as long as you need to!

Includes everything that I cover with my personal coaching clients at a fraction of the cost - saves you time AND money!

A simple step-by-step action plan made easy!

Enjoyable exercises and simple action steps, included for each section of the program, make it easy and fun

It's like having me hold your hand and walk you through each step personally.

Companion guides for each session that give you exactly what you need to put the ideas into action.

Simple question and answer format reveals exactly what's keeping you from the love you crave.

No need to take notes!

Simple "cheat sheets" for each session keep you on track.

Included with each session so you complete exactly what you need to and nothing else.

Breaks each session into bite-sized chunks to keep it manageable and accelerate your progress.

You can just enjoy watching the videos without feeling the need to take notes (unless you want to!).

Plus, the emotional support you need...

Delivered right to your inbox, right when you need it.

At the beginning of each module, as well as in between sessions, I'll keep you motivated and going strong throughout the entire program with inspirational emails, just as if I was coaching you personally. 

Each email contains additional resources, recommendations and suggestions to help you make the most out of the program and make you successful.

Just like a good friend, I'll be with you all the way.

Here's what women just like you have to say about Jane and her work:


“You are on the right track and by reading Jane's blogs, you will soon feel stronger and more clear. I am going through something similar and I can say, with Jane's personal coaching and her programs, I feel so much stronger and am making choices that work for me.

My self esteem has risen dramatically, since I've chosen ME.

You deserve to have the safe and committed relationship you want and when you can clearly see this, the letting go won't be as difficult. Keep reading Jane's words of encouragement and wisdom. You are heading in the right direction. Stay strong.” 


"I STRONGLY recommend taking Jane's course Beautiful, Confident, Radiant YOU :) It's 100% worth it!

Jane's right...what keeps you holding on is what truly matters and you'll find that out if you take that course.

Learning who you are, why you are the way you are, and noticing the beauty of it is the key to all of this."


“Hi Jane...

I met the love of my life ... I have never felt more alive since this day. His name is Rob :)

After 3 dates he told me that he wasn't looking for a relationship but that he wanted one with me.

He asked me to be his girlfriend after 5 dates.
I'm very happy with him...

Your blogs helped me to see my potential instead of always looking for potential. 

I'm so grateful for all of your blogs that I have read...

To quote you; "Find the You that leads to two" I believe I did. We are moving in together this summer, because it feels right.

Thanks Jane!”

In this breakthrough program
you'll learn:

  • The most important thing you can do to attract a man that's perfectly matched to you, so you can finally stop trying to be something you're not!
  • How to make him want to prove himself to you - he'll be willing to risk EVERYTHING just to win your heart!
  • How to guarantee that he's going to want to call you as much as  you want him to - no more constantly looking at your phone wondering if he's going to call or text!
  • The simple yet amazingly effective tool that will get you more attention from men than you've ever had - you'll be surprised at how easy it is!
  • Why you've been attracting the wrong men, and exactly what you need to do to turn that around so you can stop wasting your precious time in relationships that won't get you where you want to be.
  • One simple "trick" that will drastically improve your confidence with men - learn this and you'll go from being awkward and insecure to that confident "diva" that has her pick of men!
  • What he really wants you to do, and why it's the opposite of what you think - nearly all of us get this completely wrong!
  • How to get him to treat you the way you deserve to be treated - purely because he wants to. You'll never be settling for "crumbs" again!

Haven't You Lived Like This Long Enough?

It's time to do something for YOURSELF for a change. You're terrific at taking care of everyone else, now it's time to take care of YOU. 

Which is why I really want you to give yourself the chance that you deserve. 

In addition to everything you've seen above, with this program you'll also receive:

If you order right now...

You'll get this entire breakthrough program, complete with the additional free bonuses for the low price of

only $197 

Isn't your love life worth that small sacrifice?

Aren't YOU worth it?

If you're going to splurge on treating yourself to anything, it might as well be on what's most important in your life - LOVE!

When you think about it, what else is more important to spend  your money on than the one thing that's going to bring you true, long lasting happiness?

Instead of spending your money on a new dress or a purse, the latest phone, dinnerware, etc., spend it on what you really want in your life - LOVE.

Don't wait any longer.

The only way to go wrong is to do nothing, and keep doing things the same way you always have. Start right now and get on the path to becoming the Beautiful, Confident, Radiant YOU! we both know is in there!

Click on the "Order Now" button below to order this program risk free!

"Thank you so much, Jane! I can analyze to the end of time, but hearing what I know to be the truth from someone else, someone with much more expertise in the "field", puts a whole new perspective on the situation. "What I do know, is you should never have to do anything to make someone want to commit to you if you are in this for commitment..." Therein lies the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth.

I have felt many times that the situation is unfair to me because, as you so aptly put it, "he isn't going to be motivated to change something that is working this well for him." And, as much as I love him completely, it simply is not working well for me. As much as I love him, I am so very tired of being alone and waiting my life away for the next weekend and the next and the next.

God bless you, Jane. You are an inspiration to so many. And especially to me."


Complete MP3 Recordings of Entire Program

$47 Value!
You can listen to recordings of each session wherever you go and wherever you are - whether you're on your lunch break, working out, cooking, walking the dog, taking a bath or in your car driving to work. It goes where you go!

Complete Written Transcript of Each Session

$27 Value!
If you want to go back over any part of the program, but don't want to search through the video to try and find it, I've included the complete transcript of the entire video in convenient PDF format.

You can easily search through these PDF files to quickly and easily review any part of the video lessons.

You can also read them on your kindle or any other e-book reading device!

Your Peace of Mind 
Satisfaction 100% Guaranteed!

I know you're going to love this program, and that it's going to completely change your life for the better, which is why I really, really want you to try it.

So I'm making the decision even easier for you - I'm giving you 60 days to try out the program, and if you feel like it wasn't for you, then all you need to do is send us an email and we'll refund the entire amount.

It's as simple as that! 

Then this program is tailored just for you!

It doesn't matter what age you are or where you are in your life stage - this program works for everyone!

Now that said, this program might not be right for you...

If you're not serious about finding true love, the relationship of a lifetime, then stop reading right now. This program is not for you.

The fact of the matter is that a lot of women who buy this program aren't going to put it into action – I mean really put it into action – they won't follow each and every step in the order presented and to the fullest extent.

They'll put it on the back burner, file it away on their computer and think "I'll get to it later".

Or maybe they'll watch the videos once, but they won't go through the exercises or take the Action Steps.

If you're the type of person who will buy this program, feeling like that means you "took action", but then not do the exercises or take the Action Steps necessary for the system to work, then please save your money and don't buy this program!

But if you're willing to put this program to the test, do each and every step as designed, in order, exactly the way I've laid them out for you, then you'll absolutely get the results that you really want.

Completing this program is the most important thing you'll ever do to ensure that you will have a life filled with love and romance.

If you're ready have the kind of love that you always wanted with a guy that's the right guy for you, then not only is this program right for you, you need to take it!

And don't worry - if you have any technical problems whatsoever, you can simply send an email to support@gettingtotruelove.com and my support team will get you back up and running as quickly as possible.

Remember, I'm here to support you in your journey, and I want to help you in any way that I can.

Let me help you!



P.S. Remember, you've got nothing to lose - if you don't feel that the benefits you get from this program are well worth the purchase price, simply request a refund within 60 days and I'll happily return the full purchase price!

Frequently Asked Questions

Question: How long will it take to get access to the program?

Answer: Your login and access information will be sent to the email address you provide when you make your purchase (if you use PayPal to purchase, then it will be sent to the email address associated with your PayPal account). You should see an email within 15 minutes (most likely much sooner). 

The email will tell you exactly how to access your program.

When you log into the member's area of the website, you'll see your program right there. When you click on the program, you'll be taken to the page that includes all of the modules.

Question: How long does the program take?

Answer: The program is laid out in a 4-module package. Each module is delivered about 8 days apart. This gives you one week to complete each module, with a day in between starting the next module.

Realistically, it will take most people longer than a week to complete all of the materials for each module, and that's absolutely fine. You can simply go at your own pace. The module's will not disappear (like so many men!). You can take as long as you like to complete each one before moving on to the next. 

The main thing is not to skip any modules or even steps in the program. It's all a specifically designed process, and each step is necessary before starting the next step. 

Question: Is there a guarantee?

Answer: Yes! I'm offering my standard 60-day guarantee.

I know you're going to love this program, and that it's going to completely change your life for the better. I'm giving you 60 days to try out the program, and if you feel like it wasn't for you, then all you need to do is send us an email and we'll refund the entire amount.

It's as simple as that! 

Question: Will I receive hard copies of the program materials?

Answer: All of the program materials are delivered digitally (through the internet) so you will not be receiving any physical products. We believe in an environmentally friendly delivery of all program materials!

Is this program right for you?

If you're a woman who:

  • Has been in a cycle of dead-end dating
  • Has had men simply disappear after several dates (or longer)
  • Has been in a relationship with a man who just wouldn't commit
  • Is currently in a relationship with a guy who simply won't make a commitment
  • Believes that all the good men are taken, and is wondering where and how to find a good guy
  • Is struggling to understand men and how their mind works
  • Truly wants a committed relationship with a great guy that you're attracted to

Get the entire program, the bonus MP3's, and the complete transripts, all for ONLY $197!