It's time to try something different

For those of you who don't already know me, I'm Jane Garapick, founder of Getting to TRUE Love. 

If you're ready to turn your love life around and finally get the kind of guy that you've always dreamed of then you're in the right place! 

I've dedicated my life to helping women just like you to break the never-ending cycle of bad relationships and get the kind of love they really want in their lives. 

Not long ago I was in the same place you are right now - wondering if I was EVER going to get it right and have the kind of love I wanted - the kind that I knew I deserved! 

After picking up the pieces of my own shattered love life, after the final straw of the worst heartbreak of my life, something clicked. I decided right then and there that this was not how my story was going to end. 

That's when I discovered the real secrets to having the kind of love that you want, and now I want to share these secrets with you. 

I've been happily married to the man of my dreams for nearly two decades, and I want you to have the same kind of happiness that I have now.

And I'm going to help you get there as quickly as possible.

Aren't you tired of dating the same kind of guys over and over again?

• Men that you hit it off with, but who never call
• Men that drag a relationship on forever but won't ever make a commitment

• Men that fade away and become distant

• Men that simply disappear without any explanation
• Men that suddenly stop calling or texting you even when you think things are going great

Did you answer YES! to any of these questions? 

Then you've come to the right place!

It's much easier than you think.

It's time to stop worrying about what you said or didn't say, what you did or didn't do, or any of those other regrets you have when you feel like things aren't going well or didn't go well. 

The truth is that it just doesn't matter. None of those things really matter.

They are of no significance in the realm where the kind of attraction we're seeking takes place, where the true seeds of real love are sown.

It's time to stand up for that inner person of you, instead of breaking her down. 

It's time to stop beating yourself up and being so hard on yourself. 

It's time to stop regretting all those things you do that you seem to have such a hard time not doing. 

Dwelling on all of these only brings you down and makes you feel worse about yourself and your current state of affairs. 

It doesn't serve you one bit to stay in that place where there is no self-love, no remembering all that you are and all that you have to offer someone, no honoring of your YOU. 

Because the point here is that when you cross paths with that special one who is looking for you as much as you're looking for him, it won't be those little things that you think are going to make or break the relationship. 

He won't be looking so closely at those things you love to hate about yourself; he'll be looking at who YOU are, what makes you uniquely you, the essence of you! 

That's what attracts him, calls him over, causes him to take a second look in your direction. And that's what gets him to stay. 

It's your aura, your energy, your ESSENCE. 

And the more you're in touch with who you really are and all those aspects of your personality, your temperament, your heart, your soul, everything that is unique to you, the more someone looking for someone just like you will be able to see all of you come shining through. 

You see, the key to attracting someone who is worthy of our love, and all that we have to offer is to first see ourselves in the beautiful light of our very essence. 

Exactly what attracts him to us is what we must first discover in ourselves. It's only when we see ourselves in this same light, with love and acceptance instead of hate and rejection, that he will be able to see us in this same way, too. 

We all have those things about ourselves we want to change. 

But there's a difference between loathing the person we see in the mirror and working towards becoming our best selves. 

One view knocks us down. The other view sees us rising to become the person we truly are underneath all the layers of our defenses and our pretenses. 

It's time to stop all this focusing on everything outside of ourselves and come back in to that beautiful place deep inside that's been vacant for far too long. 

That place where the inner light of you gives up settling for the dim light of mediocrity and refuses to settle for anything less than the glorious illuminating light that is your birthright! 

Find that essence within yourself and the one who's meant to find you will find it too. 

And when he falls for you, he'll be falling for the real you. Your ESSENCE.

And here's the thing. 

The more single women I work with the more I'm convinced that beauty, intelligence, success, wealth, and attractiveness doesn't mean an increased ability to attract their Mr. Right. In fact, often it makes it more difficult. 

For every woman who may seem to have it all (or at least have something that we think we're missing that we need to attract a man) the story they tell in reality is one that is all too similar to the rest of us. 

We think that the more beautiful a woman is, the more likely she'll attract a better relationship or a higher quality guy, but in fact, of the ones I can think of, the opposite is true. 

Think of all the models and celebrities who seem to end up with the glamorous celebrity guys only to be broken up a few years later. 

The reality is that no matter how educated we are, how attractive we are, how much money we have, how much we have to offer someone on whatever level, none of these things seem to correlate with how good we are at finally getting it right and having a real relationship with a real guy that will stand the test of time. 

Because it's just not about that.

Those outer things, those surface things, may seem to attract someone to us, and yes, we've all seen the beautiful woman with a crowd of men around her at a party, but those types of surface things don't form the basis for a real, lasting relationship. 

Be true to yourself. 

Underneath the surface is what's real, as in who we really are. 

That's what really matters over time. 

And while the surface package may be very attractive, it's what's inside that comes through over time and is what matters in the long term. 

The real light inside each one of us is what attracts a loving, available, healthy man, a man that is right for us, and bonds us together in the long term. 

And that's the only type of man who's worthy of being in your life; someone who sees beyond that surface package to the heart and soul of who you are, the essence of you that is worth more than even the most attractive surface package. 

Beautiful, Confidant, Radiant YOU!

I know you've tried everything. 

That's why you can't try one more thing because if you do and you STILL don't meet him, then you'll have to admit all over again to everyone - and mostly to yourself - that it really is you. 

That there really is something wrong with you. 

Well, Beautiful, I have some good news for you. 

It's not about fixing you. 

It's not about one more program pointing out what's wrong with you. 

It's about seeing you! 

You see, I know that you've never seen yourself before. That's what this all comes down to. 

That's why there's nothing to fix, but there's everything to find. 

That's the only thing that's been missing. You don't know how to see the real you. You don't know how to see you for who you really are, for all that you have to offer, for all that you have to give. 

All you know is what's wrong with you. 

All you've been told is what you're doing wrong. 

All you've heard is how everyone else seems to know what they're doing and have it all together, while you stay there in the shadows trying to figure out what's so desparately wrong with you on your own. 

There's such a shame in our culture behind this ever present question that you hear no matter how much you try not to hear it. 

"Why are you still single?" 

Or worse yet, the words whispered behind your back "Why is she still single?" 

The truth is that there's so much more to those words. 

What you really hear them saying, even as you pretend you don't, are the words "What's wrong with her that she's still single?" 

There's such a shaming aspect of singleness in our culture that so many of us can't get past. 

We've come so far in so many ways, but on the otherhand, have we really? 

Or for those of us who feel so deeply, who sense what others think and say even as they would deny it, have we really come anywhere at all? It's still there all around us, and the ones who break the mold and don't follow in everyone else's shoes still seem to be choosing this, too. 

But you didn't choose this. 

And that's what makes this so different for you. 

That confident woman you see living and loving the epitomy of singleness. 

That's not you. 

Maybe it used to be, but somewhere between the beginnings that showed so much promise and the endings that broke your already tattered heart, you stopped seeing yourself the way you used to. 

The hope is all but gone. The excitement of a new date has been replaced with the expectation that there'll be something wrong again this time. 

You've come to dread being "set up" by your friends or family, or checking for anything new in online dating. 

What could possibly be different? You wonder. 

It's become a self-fulfilling prophecy that even if you recognized it, you feel powerless to change. 

And yet you're here. 

Somehow, some way, there's still some glimmer of hope inside you that brought you here today. 

You don't know have to know how or why; in fact, it doesn't really matter, except that you're here. You see, some of the greatest miracles happen when we're at our lowest darkest place. 

And then you look at me and wonder how I could possibly understand what you're going through. 

Except that I do. 

You see, I know something about the way we see ourselves. And what happens to us when we can't. 

He can't see you until you see yourself. You're his eyes. When you see yourself for who you are, with eyes of love instead of eyes of loathing, only then will he be able to see you. 

It's not cliché. It's reality. 

There's a saying that goes something like: "If you could see yourself the way someone who loves you sees you, you would never, ever allow yourself to be treated this way." 

That, Beautiful, is the truth. 

It's not about him, it's about you. It's about seeing yourself with love instead of hate. With compassion instead of judgement. With grace instead of its opposite. 

That's what I'm here for. I'm going to help you find the real you. 

How could you know when you've only had what they wanted you to be reinforced in you? 

How could you know who you really are apart from the good little girl you've only ever known how to be? 

You played the role so beautifully, in fact, you still do, don't you? 

Except that's not the real you, it's only a role that's become so much a part of you, you can't tell the difference between the two. 

That's where we're going. Deep into you. 

We're going to find you and set you free. 

Step by step, we're going to get you there. 

This isn't a fix you program. It's a find you program. And once you do, you're going to see yourself like you never have before. 

So he can see you, too. Like you've never been seen before. 

I'm going to walk you through each and every step in the order that gives you the fastest results for each and every one of those beautiful steps that are finally going to get you where you want to be. 

Loved. For you. For who you are. For where you've been. For all you're going to be. 

From the beginnings where we find out about the real you that you never knew; the one that you only know because it's the you everyone else told you was you. 

To the in between steps where we discover what hidden beliefs you've been buying into for most, if not all of your life. To the step where we give you something to believe in again. 

The freedom to believe in yourself, in love, in someone else who might just be looking for you as hard as you've been looking for him. 

And then we're going to help him find you. 

By giving you back your ability to be the one in control in this thing that's gotten so out of control. By showing you that you're the one who's been doing the choosing all along, no matter how much it's felt anything but something you would choose. 

By giving you back your power to choose exactly what you're looking for by going deeper than you've ever gone to discover exactly what that is.

And we don't stop there. 

We take you out and show you how to shine your own light in a way that he can't help but see you.

Without a chance of missing you with that feeling of your newfound freedom from where you've been, from what you've been carrying around you that was never yours to begin with, to your new life that knows no limits. 

Is this program right for you? 

If you're a woman who:

• Has been in a cycle of dead-end dating 
• Has had men simply disappear after several dates (or longer) 
• Has been in a relationship with a man who just wouldn't commit 
• Is currently in a relationship with a guy who simply won't make a commitment 
• Believes that all the good men are taken, and is wondering where and how to find a good guy 
• Is struggling to understand men and how their mind works 
• Truly wants a committed relationship with a great guy that you're attracted to 

Then this program is tailored just for you!

It doesn't matter what age you are or where you are in your life stage - this program works for everyone! 

Now that said, this program might not be right for you... 

If you're not serious about finding true love, the relationship of a lifetime, then stop reading right now. This program is not for you. 

The fact of the matter is that a lot of women who buy this program aren't going to put it into action - I mean really put it into action - they won't follow each and every step in the order presented and to the fullest extent. 

They'll put it on the back burner, file it away on their computer and think "I'll get to it later". 

Or maybe they'll watch the videos once, but they won't go through the exercises or take the Action Steps. 

If you're the type of person who will buy this program, feeling like that means you "took action", but then not do the exercises or take the Action Steps necessary for the system to work, then please save your money and don't buy this program! 

But if you're willing to put this program to the test, do each and every step as designed, in order, exactly the way I've laid them out for you, then you'll absolutely get the results that you really want. 

Completing this program is the most important thing you'll ever do to ensure that you will have a life filled with love and romance. 

If you're ready have the kind of love that you always wanted with a guy that's the right guy for you, then not only is this program right for you, you need to take it! 

And don't worry - if you have any technical problems whatsoever, you can simply send an email to support@gettingtotruelove.com and my support team will get you back up and running as quickly as possible. 

Remember, I'm here to support you in your journey, and I want to help you in any way that I can. 

Let me help you! 

Love,

P.S. Remember, you've got nothing to lose - if you don't feel that the benefits you get from this program are well worth the purchase price, simply request a refund within 60 days and I'll happily return the full purchase price!

Frequently Asked Questions:

Question: How long will it take to get access to the program? 

 Answer: Your login and access information will be sent to the email address you provide when you make your purchase (if you use PayPal to purchase, then it will be sent to the email address associated with your PayPal account). You should see an email within 15 minutes (most likely much sooner). 

 The email will tell you exactly how to access your program. 

 When you log into the member's area of the website, you'll see your program right there. When you click on the program, you'll be taken to the page that includes all of the modules.

Question: Will I receive hard copies of the program materials? 

Answer: All of the program materials are delivered digitally (through the internet.) You'll be able to access the program materials immediately via the membership website. The followups are delivered via email right to your inbox.

You will not be receiving any physical products, which means that you don't have to wait for anything - you can get started immediately!

We believe in an environmentally friendly delivery of all program materials!

Question: Is there a guarantee? 

Answer: Yes! I'm offering my standard 60-day guarantee. 

I know you're going to love this program, and that it's going to completely change your life for the better. I'm giving you 60 days to try out the program, and if you feel like it wasn't for you, then all you need to do is send us an email and we'll refund the entire amount. 

It's as simple as that!

Question: How long does the program take? 

Answer: The program is laid out in a 4-module package. Each module is delivered about 8 days apart. This gives you one week to complete each module, with a day in between starting the next module. 

Realistically, it will take most people longer than a week to complete all of the materials for each module, and that's absolutely fine. You can simply go at your own pace. The module's will not disappear (like so many men!). You can take as long as you like to complete each one before moving on to the next. 

The main thing is not to skip any modules or even steps in the program. It's all a specifically designed process, and each step is necessary before starting the next step. 

Get the entire program, the bonus MP3's, the complete transripts, and the One-on-One coaching session all for ONLY $197 $97!